Ray Romanois letting fans in on what a “perfect day” at hisCalifornia desert homelooks like.The actor-comedian and his wife of 36 years,Anna Romano, gaveArchitectural Digesta web-exclusive peek into their West Coast abode, after the pair recently put down roots at their longtime vacation spot of La Quinta, California, southeast of Palm Springs.During thetour, Ray, 65, spoke about an ideal day at home, starting off with, “You go out, you play golf.“Then turning his attention to Anna, 60, Ray continued, “You have your friends over and you guys go to the spa or whatever, [and then] we meet, we have a great dinner, and then we have what I call the perfect cozy evening.“Detailing that the “perfect cozy evening” takes place in the couple’s theater room, Ray said that the pair will later go to bed, where they will “dream of bubblegum and lollipops,” before candidly admitting: “No sex! There’s no sex in there, of course.“Never miss a story — sign up forPEOPLE’s free daily newsletterto stay up-to-date on the best of what PEOPLE has to offer, from celebrity news to compelling human interest stories.Ray Romano and Anna Romano in their California home.Jenna Peffley/ ADWhen Ray and Anna first decided to build their home away from the Los Angeles hustle and bustle, the couple reached out to interior designerNate Berkusfor help — or, more accurately, their daughter, Ally Romano, did.Anna, a fan of Berkus’ work, consulted with Ally, 33, about hiring him, and she was the one who sent the initial email that served as the springboard for their relationship.“Over the years, following him and seeing stuff he’s done, he just seemed like an easy person to work with,” Anna toldAD.During their home tour, Romano joked, “My wife knew who he was, and kind of had a crush on him,” to which Anna replied, “Still do.”Ray Romano.David Benthal/BFA.com/ShutterstockElsewhere in the clip, Romano toldADthat he loves the whole house, but his “two favorite parts” are his personal putting green and the bunk bed room.Intended for their sons — Joseph, 25, and 30-year-old twins Gregory and Matthew — to sleep in when they visit, the room was one request Romano had for Berkus, 52 — and he loves it so much he even stays there when visiting La Quinta without Anna.When they visit as a couple, however, they stay in the primary bedroom, which features a pop-up television, a stunning patio and an abstract art piece Ray said he thinks of as “a smile.”The only other bedroom in the home belongs to Ally, or “Queen Alexandra,” as Ray called her, who also has her own bathroom.“She requested a place away from the smelly boys, I believe is how she put it,” Ray joked toAD.
Ray Romanois letting fans in on what a “perfect day” at hisCalifornia desert homelooks like.
The actor-comedian and his wife of 36 years,Anna Romano, gaveArchitectural Digesta web-exclusive peek into their West Coast abode, after the pair recently put down roots at their longtime vacation spot of La Quinta, California, southeast of Palm Springs.
During thetour, Ray, 65, spoke about an ideal day at home, starting off with, “You go out, you play golf.”
Then turning his attention to Anna, 60, Ray continued, “You have your friends over and you guys go to the spa or whatever, [and then] we meet, we have a great dinner, and then we have what I call the perfect cozy evening.”
Detailing that the “perfect cozy evening” takes place in the couple’s theater room, Ray said that the pair will later go to bed, where they will “dream of bubblegum and lollipops,” before candidly admitting: “No sex! There’s no sex in there, of course.”
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Ray Romano and Anna Romano in their California home.Jenna Peffley/ AD

Jenna Peffley/ AD
When Ray and Anna first decided to build their home away from the Los Angeles hustle and bustle, the couple reached out to interior designerNate Berkusfor help — or, more accurately, their daughter, Ally Romano, did.Anna, a fan of Berkus’ work, consulted with Ally, 33, about hiring him, and she was the one who sent the initial email that served as the springboard for their relationship.“Over the years, following him and seeing stuff he’s done, he just seemed like an easy person to work with,” Anna toldAD.
During their home tour, Romano joked, “My wife knew who he was, and kind of had a crush on him,” to which Anna replied, “Still do.”
Ray Romano.David Benthal/BFA.com/Shutterstock

David Benthal/BFA.com/Shutterstock
Elsewhere in the clip, Romano toldADthat he loves the whole house, but his “two favorite parts” are his personal putting green and the bunk bed room.
Intended for their sons — Joseph, 25, and 30-year-old twins Gregory and Matthew — to sleep in when they visit, the room was one request Romano had for Berkus, 52 — and he loves it so much he even stays there when visiting La Quinta without Anna.
When they visit as a couple, however, they stay in the primary bedroom, which features a pop-up television, a stunning patio and an abstract art piece Ray said he thinks of as “a smile.”
The only other bedroom in the home belongs to Ally, or “Queen Alexandra,” as Ray called her, who also has her own bathroom.
“She requested a place away from the smelly boys, I believe is how she put it,” Ray joked toAD.
source: people.com